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Nicola Murray

Therapist · United Kingdom

Calm, practical counselling for everyday struggles

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Nicola Murray
Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 392558
Experience
6 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Practical coping tools
  • Collaboration first
  • Relationship focus

About Nicola

Nicola Murray is a counsellor with six years of clinical experience. She works with adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious or stuck and helps them find practical ways to cope. Nicola uses everyday language and a down-to-earth approach in sessions.

She trained initially in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based ideas. Nicola collaborates with each person to choose approaches that fit their needs rather than using one fixed method. Sessions focus on realistic steps clients can try between meetings.

Common themes Nicola supports include stress, anxiety, depression and relationship and intimacy-related concerns. She also helps people dealing with grief, trauma and issues such as codependency, ADHD and addictions. Nicola pays attention to patterns that keep people stuck and to how past experiences affect present choices.

Her style is practical and person-centred. Conversations often include checking unhelpful thoughts, building small new habits and practising ways to communicate more clearly. Nicola aims to make therapy usable in everyday life rather than only theoretical.

Sessions are offered in English from the United Kingdom, and Nicola accepts international clients. The pathway to starting is straightforward and designed to match people to a suitable plan rather than forcing a single way of working.

How Nicola's approaches translate to online therapy

Nicola uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and attachment-based ideas alongside Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. CBT looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours link, and helps people try small experiments to change unhelpful patterns. Attachment-based work focuses on how early relationships shape expectations and responses in adult life, which can help with trust and intimacy issues. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports noticing difficult thoughts and choosing actions aligned with personal values rather than getting stuck in avoidance.

Finding the best approach is part of the work together. Nicola will talk through what matters to you, test what helps and adapt methods as goals change. This collaborative process means the therapeutic plan can shift if something isn’t working for you.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the specific session formats offered before booking. Online options can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people take part from different locations and can help maintain continuity when life is unpredictable. Talk with Nicola about what will work practically for you and how to structure sessions to suit your routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Listed on profile

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Nicola help with?

Nicola supports adults with stress, anxiety and depression and with relationship and intimacy-related concerns. Additional areas include grief, trauma, codependency, ADHD and addictions.

What is her approach in sessions?

She combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment ideas. Sessions focus on practical steps, thinking patterns and communication skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Nicola has six years of experience working as a counsellor. That experience shapes the practical, down-to-earth way she works with clients.

What professional credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international clients are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Nicola accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking so you know whether online or in-person meetings are offered.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. You can then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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