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Paul Smith

Therapist · United Kingdom

A calm, person-centred counsellor for change

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Paul Smith
Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 173722
Experience
15 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Person Centred therapy
  • Warm and non-judgemental
  • Experienced practitioner

About Paul

Paul Smith offers a calm, straightforward way to talk through whatever feels stuck. He aims to help people find clearer thinking and small steps that lead to real change. Conversations are kept warm and non-judgemental so people can speak honestly about stress, relationships, grief and more.

Paul uses a Person Centred approach, which means he listens closely and follows the person’s lead. Sessions focus on understanding what matters to the individual and exploring practical options for change. He wants clients to feel seen and to notice how their choices affect daily life.

Paul has practised since 2011 and brings 15 years of experience to sessions. That time has included work with depression, anxiety, relationship and family problems, addiction concerns, trauma and issues around intimacy and self-esteem. He also pays attention to attachment, codependency and related patterns that can affect close relationships.

His manner is described as warm, friendly and non-judgemental. He treats people as separate from the difficulties they bring and looks for ways to help them build on their own strengths. The aim is to make therapy a practical part of getting through hard periods.

Paul works from the United Kingdom and conducts sessions in English. People who live outside the UK may enquire about arrangements. To begin, clients use the site’s Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.

How Client‑centred work and online sessions fit together

Paul uses Client‑Centred Therapy, which focuses on listening closely and following the person’s concerns. This approach helps people who are dealing with stress, relationship difficulties, grief or low self‑esteem by giving them space to make sense of feelings and decide what to change.

The same Person Centred way of working applies in an online context: the counsellor prioritises understanding, warmth and acceptance. That means the therapist will check in about what matters to the person and adapt sessions to meet their goals, whether the priority is exploring attachment issues, codependency or coping with life changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the process and will be decided together. The therapist will discuss needs, goals and preferences to choose how to work best. This is a collaborative process rather than a fixed prescription.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it can fit around work and family life, reduce travel time and make it easier to schedule short check‑ins or regular sessions. Paul aims to help clients put what they talk about into practical steps they can use between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepression

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

Listed on profile

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Paul commonly help with?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, addictions, trauma and intimacy-related concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He works in a Person Centred way, offering an open, non-judgemental space and following the person’s lead in sessions.

How much experience does he have?

Paul has been seeing clients since 2011, giving him about 15 years of practice with a range of common concerns.

What credentials and location apply?

He holds BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with Paul?

International clients are accepted; check the matching process to confirm arrangements for scheduling and time zones.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, then schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

Profile details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. Credential and registration rules differ between the United States, the United Kingdom and Australia.

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